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How to Have a successful marriage: Features to show you the right way to save your marriage and stop your divorce, Part 8 – Your Support System:

Zoals you know now, problems in marriage is normal, hell, want OUT of your marriage is becoming more and more normal, and over half of marriages end in divorce, the first five years alone, so I guess you can say divorce is normal. Everyone has problems, and most people I know in a relationship want out at some point in the relationship, the only question is how you handle them, you’ll be able to find solutions, and your relationship with your partner always in love, passion and happiness? Unfortunately, although every marriage has problems almost every marriage is incapable of solving them and an abundance of passion, love and fulfillment you want to experience. Instead, almost every marriage is characterized by avoidance, passive-aggressive behavior, blaming and defensiveness, anger and stress, unresolved conflict, distress, dissatisfaction with your partner, and bitterness resentment.

En every marriage if it is a universal characteristic … none of them have a support system. What this means for you if you want a different, better marriage, a marriage filled with peace, joy, happiness, love and passion, if you’re serious about stopping your divorce and save your marriage, you will get from a scheme as soon as possible. What I mean by “support system” that has no friends. Everyone has at least one person they consider a friend. No, I mean a group of people (two to three, and more if possible) that love, support, comfort, encourage, assist, accept, and challenge you – without fear of losing the relationship on their part. And if you can not solve marital problems and dissatisfaction in your marriage you have, I can tell you now, you do not support a system.

Ik remember my marital problems were at their worst, and when I started realize I could achieve success even in the midst of divorce. For the longest time I hid in my cave, like a real caveman. Do not misunderstand me, I found my hole, I had a great TV and sound system, comfortable bed, nice patio, good food to eat, nice curtains. But I was alone, isolated. I had friends good friends … or so I thought. You see, even though I have close friends who I considered it, they really do not know me. They did not know me because I was not really with them (being congruent, who will get in at another time). And as a result I suffered. I did not get the help I needed. I did not get the encouragement and support I needed. I did not have the opportunity to put my thoughts and experiences against reality. Please note, I needed to use this word. Yes, I need these things, but I did not want them …